Friday, May 30, 2008

Lakers vs. Celtics - a 21-year wait!


NBA Finals.
Lakers. Celtics.
Magic. Bird.
I was a sophomore in high school the last time it happened.

The 1987 NBA Finals took place between the Los Angeles Lakers and the Boston Celtics. The Lakers won 4-2. I remember Magic Johnson's junior sky hook in Game 4. It was the tenth time that the Celtics and Lakers met in the NBA Finals and now, 21 years later, the greatest matchup in NBA history happens again. Finally, a new generation will experience the tradition.

The Lakers will be appearing in the Finals for a record 29th time overall. The Celtics will be appearing in the Finals for second best 20th time overall. The Celtics have won the most championships all-time with 16, the Lakers are second with 14.

1987 had Kareem Abdul-Jabbar, Larry Bird, Magic Johnson, Kevin McHale, Robert Parish, James Worthy, Bill Walton

2008 has Kobe Bryant, Kevin Garnett, Paul Pierce, Ray Allen, Derek Fisher, Pau Gasol.

The names may not be as marquee to me or most people, but seeing the purple and gold vs. the green and white is good enough for me!

Monday, May 26, 2008

Memorial Day Weekend

First and foremost on this Memorial Day Weekend, we remember and honor those who are serving, those who have served and those who have given their lives for our great country.

We had a great weekend.

On Saturday, Erik and Rigby went to see Speed Racer, Stacy, Lucy and Nana went shopping and then we all gathered back at the Oglesby Ranch. Erik and Stacy ended the evening with a viewing of the movie, The Mist - Stephen King is a master. That movie was good, but the ending just tore us up.

On Sunday, we started out with breakfast at MudPie and then spent a good part of the afternoon at Who-Fest [08] in Renaissance Park. There were more than 60 folk artists there. Sister Tobi had a spot at the Art Show and was selling her wares like crazy! We bought a great, new piece from Asheville artist Deona Fish.

Rigby and Erik did some major cardboard sledding down the park's big hill. The family took a walk through the park and got some good rock-throwing accomplished. The Tennessee River has several new rocks.

We finished the day at the Swaynes and with Tobi and Corey. We munched down on burgers, dawgs, chips, tasty beans and beers. We got some good Mario Kart Wii in as well.

On Monday, we had lunch at Subway in North Chatt and then made our way over to the City side to catch a ride on the water taxi.

Upon boarding, we traveled to Maclellan Island, in the middle of the Tennessee River. Our visit to the island would be a first for us and we were very excited. There is a 1.5 mile trail that follows the perimeter of the island. Besides having fun, one of our main tasks was avoiding poison ivy. The trails are well-kept, though.

One unique feature on the island is a "rain-shadow desert" that lies beneath the Veterans Bridge, which travels across the middle of the island. Hardly any rain or sun hits beneath the bridge, leaving a lot of dirt and areas for picnic tables and a nice campfire setup.

There were a couple camping areas on the island and even a nice concrete block shelter. We discovered an old piece of farm equipment, which had to of been more than 50 years old, as farming on the island ceased in 1954.

We stayed on the island for almost two hours before hopping aboard the "Fat Cat" boat to carry us back to the mainland. We did not want our day to end, so we went to visit our fish friends at the Aquarium.

Now it is back to work, albeit a four-day work week!

Monday, May 19, 2008

Smokies

The GrayStation family traveled up I-75 to see Erik's parental units at the Foothills Craft Guild show at Pellissippi State in West Knoxville over the weekend. Stacy's parents came along as well for the afternoon.

After spending the afternoon at Pellissippi, we traveled up Highway 321 into Townsend and the gateway to the Smokies. We took the kids to an old swimming hole favorite, the Townsend "Wye." It's the meeting point of the middle and west prongs of the Little Pigeon River, which is seven miles east of Cades Cove. We spent about an hour braving the cold water and throwing rocks.



We had dinner at Cowboy's on Douglas Lake and spent the night in White Pine, enjoying a nice quick stay.

On Sunday, we traveled back into Erik's old stomping grounds of Pigeon Forge and Gatlinburg. It was rainy, but we did get into some tourist areas. We did some outlet mall shopping, had lunch at TGI Friday's, went on a Jurassic Jungle Boat Ride and played video games, Skee Ball and air hockey in an arcade.



We decided to go to Cades Cove around 6 p.m. on Sunday. It was a cool 50 degrees. We took a quick hike to one of the old cabins and saw many deer, wild turkeys and two black bears. We did not get home until after 11 p.m. We certainly packed it in this weekend.

Saturday, May 10, 2008

Happy Mother's Day

Proverbs 31:10-12 and 25-31

A wife of noble character who can find?
She is worth far more than rubies.
Her husband has full confidence in her
and lacks nothing of value.

She brings him good, not harm,
all the days of her life.

She is clothed with strength and dignity;
she can laugh at the days to come.

She speaks with wisdom,
and faithful instruction is on her tongue.

She watches over the affairs of her household
and does not eat the bread of idleness.

Her children arise and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her:

"Many women do noble things,
but you surpass them all."

Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.

Give her the reward she has earned,
and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.



Happy Mother's Day to Dolores Wells, Rhonda Oglesby, Stacy Gray, Mary Sue "Muggy" Oglesby and Aileen Gray, some of the best mothers in the world.

Monday, May 05, 2008

GrayStation Concert Tour

Well the Spring GrayStation Concert Tour is complete.

Friday, April 25
Bruce Springsteen and the E Street Band at Philips Arena in Atlanta. What more can be said about one of the best American rockers ever? He played two-and-a-half hours and never left the stage. Not bad for a 58-year-old. We realized there is a lot of Boss music we do not know. We have much to learn.

Wednesday, April 30
Bon Jovi at Philips Arena in Atlanta. Daughtry opened the first 45 minutes. Bon Jovi took over the next two hours and entertained like he was rockin' the 80s. A great moment was screaming "Oh, we're half way there. Oh, Oh! Livin' on a Prayer" at the top of your lungs with 20,000 other people, some with mullets from 1989.

To make me sound old, I first saw Bon Jovi in 1988 at Thompson-Boling Arena. Yes, 20 years ago. Stacy had to sit this one out as she was in Portland, Maine on business travel.

Sunday, May 4
Kanye West with Lupe Fiasco, N.E.R.D. (Pharell Williams) and Rihanna at the Gwinnett Center in Atlanta. Started at 7:30, ended at midnight. What a show!

Lupe Fiasco was surprisingly good. He had a good stage show.

NERD just rocked the stage. Pharell is not the best singer/rapper, but his style of rock/skater punk/rap music is unique. Special ATL appearances by Chris Brown and Bow Wow on the stage dancing up a storm to one of NERD's jams.

Rihanna was disappointing. Now she did have a nice one-piece leather outfit on, but she seemed bored, even during "Umbrella" ella....ella....ella....

Just before the Kanye show, we spotted Quincy Jones on the floor meeting with some of the sound crew. That was a cool surprise - one of the legends of music.

Kanye came out for almost two hours and put on a theatrical Vegas show. His stage was built to look like an alien planet with a spaceship on it. He was the only one on stage, and his band was in a pit in front of the stage. His show was scripted and his songs told the story. He played it all and the crowd never sat down, instead opting for bouncing and throwing hands in the sky the whole night. He is going to be awesome at Bonaroo.

Whew. Time for a rest until we find the next block of shows.

Thursday, April 17, 2008

Our Big Deck

Spring has sprung, and so has our awesome big new deck.

http://bigdeck2008.blogspot.com/

It took almost a month to build and now it is ready for some nice outdoor living. We are excited about the new space we have for our home. Now we have to focus on the ground area around the deck to give us some more function and better scenery.

Rock on!!

Wednesday, March 05, 2008

The end of an era

Durty Nelly's, we bid thee farewell.

For many Fridays and other days, we congregated at the Grand Ole Irish Pub on North Market Street in Chattanooga.

There were many an evening we sat at the bar with old friends, dear friends who have now left Chattanooga.

There was that time during The Blizzard of '93. The ole pub was open for St. Patrick's Day even if there was two feet of snow and three feet and more of snow drifts. Who still has a t-shirt from there that says, "I survived!"

There were the Irish folk songs - sing along, I know you can.

There were many a Friday that the Sigma Chis sat in one corner, the Sigma Kappas sat in another corner and the beer flowed like wine. No fake IDs there.

There were the people who threw their peanuts on the floor and at people, heck, even the hired singers.

There was the drinking glove - I still have it - 15 years later.

There was our old friend Clancy, who is no longer with us. I drank one last more for you, my brother.

There were the times we gathered with family. Ole Sideboard loved the place.

There was the Onion Orgy. The Durty Burger. The Nacho Colosso. Fish & Chips. The Shannon Salad. Oh, and the Bread Pudding.

There was the Purple Snake (port wine and Guiness)


And so it ends. On February 29, 2008, a day that only happens once every four years, Durty Nelly's closed its doors for good.

We had to drink our dinner since there was no food being served. Guiness and Killian's in a clear plastic cup and the Styrofoam when the fine plastic was gone.

Some of the last food eaten at the ole pub was an Irish favorite, Pizza Hut, delivered hot and fresh to our table, via ordering delivery.

Some old faces and new friends made their way in the doors one last time. We closed the place down one last time. Pour out a little liquor for the homies.



One more time, for old times sake . . .

There was green alligators and long-necked geese
Some humpty backed camels and some chimpanzees
Some cats and rats and elephants, but sure as you're born
The loveliest of all was the unicorn!


Sunday, February 17, 2008

Big News for Stacy

Stacy has accepted the role of Assistant Vice President, Simply Unum Program. A great big step on her career path!


From: Glidden, Charlene
Sent: Wednesday, February 13, 2008 3:36 PM
Subject: Organization Announcement


As many of you know when we formed the UUS Program Office a short time ago we announced that Cissy Grebowski, VP Simply Unum Program had accepted a new role as head of the Customer Contact Centers reporting to Tom Thompson. We also announced that Cissy would continue in a dual role for a period of time and have since defined that timeframe taking us through the National Rollout of Simply Unum.


Since then I've been searching for a candidate to fill the SU Program Manager position after Cissy's transition. I've been partnering with Cissy, Tom Thompson, Andrea Gordon and others on further defining the skills and requirements for the SU Program Manager role going forward. I'm sure it's no surprise to many of you that there is still a great deal of work to be accomplished for Simply Unum 1.0 such as Completion of the Model, incorporation of Marketplace feedback and adjustments, implementation of state approvals, completion of the VB Conversion effort and finally the Group Migration strategy and execution. In addition, Andrea Gordon has been leading a team focused on Simply Unum 2.0 strategy and design which will help determine other segment opportunities to ensure we fully achieve the UUS Growth Strategy on this platform. Both of these efforts will continue to need a highly effective cross-functional Program Manager for years to come to ensure we continue with the kind of success that we've seen to date under Cissy's leadership working with so many areas across the company.


To support this critical program going forward, I'm extremely pleased to announce that Stacy Gray has accepted the role of Assistant Vice President, Simply Unum Program reporting to me in the UUS Program Office. Stacy has served as the Assistant Vice President of Voluntary Marketing Communications for Unum US since May 2006. Her ten+ years of experience with the company also include employee communications, community relations, public relations and advertising. Stacy has also been actively engaged in our Voluntary Practice and that experience will serve her well in this new role.


Stacy received her Bachelor of Arts in Communication from the University of Tennessee at Chattanooga and her Masters in Public Relations from the University of Tennessee at Knoxville. Her current community interests including developing a local chapter of the American Marketing Association and serving as an active alumnae of her local university. Stacy lives in Chattanooga with her husband Erik (also a Unum employee), son Rigby (age 4) and daughter Lucy (age 2). Stacy enjoys spending time with her family, reading, traveling, cooking, gardening and appreciating all forms of music (including that of the Beatles, as evidenced by her choice of names for her children).


Stacy will be working closely with Cissy over the next several months to learn all the components of the Program Manager role and to ensure an effective smooth transition. Please join me in congratulating Stacy on this new role and welcoming her to the UUS Program Office.


Charlene Glidden
VP, Unum US Program Office

Thursday, January 17, 2008

Loss of a childhood friend

Pigeon Forge Police chief's son dies in jail

Sevier County Sheriff Ron Seals has announced the death of a prisoner at the jail by apparent suicide.

Bradley Baldwin, 36, was being held at the jail on theft charges. He was the son of Pigeon Forge Police Chief Jack Baldwin.

The Tennessee Bureau of Investigation is investigating his death. No foul play is suspected.



That is so sad. Brad was one of my childhood friends growing up in Pigeon Forge. I can vividly remember playing at his house often. Making chili pies with a whole pack of crackers. Him singing Elvis. Destroying his room full of toys.

It is so odd about the choices he made. His dad has been police chief for more than 25 years. I remember his mom and dad to be very kind. My heart goes out to them today.

Sunday, January 06, 2008

Augusta

The weekend saw our travel to Augusta, Ga. for Bob's (step-dad) 70th birthday surprise party. We stayed at cousins Pat & Sam's. We got to see their kids, who are our age, and their four grandkids, who are Rigby and Lucy's age.

Tobi, Corey and Nellie were there, as were my step-sister Susan and her husband, Walter.

We also got to spend time with Great Uncle Lonnie Wilder (87-years-young), the last of the Wilders that we named Rigby after. He still goes deer hunting. We talked about WWII and his experiences in Augusta, where he has lived since 1943.

We left on Saturday and returned on Sunday. Although it was a quick trip, it felt like several days because we really made it count. We stayed up late catching up.

We had good Augusta bar-be-que and hash. Beer was available as we watched the NFL wild-card playoff games.

Rigby and Lucy had a blast with their newfound cousins. They ran and played all over the back yard and inside the house.

We left on Sunday afternoon back across I-20 towards Atlanta. We stopped in the small town of Social Circle, located 45 minutes east of Atl. Stacy's maternal grandparents lived there. We saw the house her grandparents lived in as well as the nearby famous Blue Willow Inn, a tasty southern restaurant.

We had a great weekend to kick off 2008!

Tuesday, January 01, 2008

Sweet Dreams 2007, Happy New Year 2008

We leave a great 2007 year behind us and welcome the new 2008 parcel of our lives.

All the best to friends, family, coworkers and acquaintances.

May you be healthy and prosperous in the year ahead.

Sunday, November 25, 2007

Lights out!

We experienced at least a dozen, quick power outages on Sunday. While it did interrupt our lazy day of watching football and putting up Christmas decorations, it got a little funny at night.

We had candles lit through the house waiting for the power to go off as the sun had set.

Around 8 p.m. the lights cut off and Stacy and I were on the other side of the house from the kids. Surprisingly, the kids just kind of went on playing and called for us. They did not freak out like I used to when I was a kid.

One time later in the evening, Rigby, Stacy and I were in the kitchen and the power went off. I had a flashlight in my pocket and went to look for Lucy, because she was thinking it was hide and go seek time apparently.

As I turned on the flashlight and headed to the living room, my light caught a small girl face just as she let out a yelp and started to laugh. It scared me a little, sort of like those creatures on the movie "Descent." Lucy thought it was hilarious and just laughed.

The power soon came back on and we enjoyed the rest of the evening. Such random day events that I had to record.

Wednesday, October 31, 2007

Bill Curry


I spent the majority of my day in a Unum Service Operations leadership meeting at The Chattanoogan today. We covered many great topics, but our session after lunch was special. Our guest speaker was Bill Curry.

Now I always remember Bill Curry as the three-year coach of Alabama and an ESPN football analyst/commentator for ESPN for the past 10 years.

But, wow, I did not realize that he played pro football from 1965 to 1974 with the Green Bay Packers (under the legendary Vince Lombardi), Houston Oilers, Baltimore Colts and Los Angeles Rams, and was an all-pro center with the Colts in 1971 and 1972. Curry was the starting offensive line center for the Packers in Super Bowl I and the Colts in Super Bowl V. He was also the ACC coach of the year in 1985 and the SEC coach of the year in 1989.

After his hour-long, moving speech about leadership development and supporting football metaphors, I had the opportunity to briefly meet him. My time was spent holding his Super Bowl I championship ring, similar to the one in the picture.

Some stats from the game:

Green Bay 35, Kansas City 10
Memorial Coliseum
Los Angeles, California
January 15, 1967
Attendance: 61,946
MVP: Bart Starr, QB, Green Bay (Curry was the center!)

Saturday, October 27, 2007

Volvo Milestone

Our 1998 Volvo S70 reached 100,000 miles on Thursday! She's been a great car and is still going strong.

Saturday, October 13, 2007

Mocs Homecoming


The power of a great day. UTC brought us together all those years ago, and UTC keeps us together even today.

The day started with a cool morning, beautiful blue skies and participation in the 2007 American Heart Association Heart Walk. We walked through the city with friends from work.

After a big burrito lunch at Mojo, we took it to the house for some siestas.

We arrived at First Tennessee Pavilion at Finely Stadium during the mid-afternoon and what a great turnout of students and alumni for UTC Homecoming.

There seemed to be a couple hundred Sigma Chis in full force. It was great to see so many brothers and pledges. If there is one day each year that we really get to celebrate, it is this day. There were many alumni in attendance, but there were also many we missed and wish had been there.

Rigby and Madison Cope took it to the big inflatable playgound and never seemed to wear out. They kept the energy going all the way through the football game. It was great.

In addition to a packed pavilion, there were several alumni I had not seen in many many years. Two in particular were Levert Threats and Larry Stewart, two of my best Mocs basketball friends from back in the day (15 years ago). Other Mocs ballers there were Tim Brooks, Gary Robb, Damon Woods and Ed "Lover" Snead. (Shane Neal was there, but he is my local boy!).

I spent a good bit of time with Larry and Levert and we enjoyed talking about days of old. It was such a good feeling to see them and pick up where we left off last time. After big hugs and promises of sincere friendship, we went on our way to see the Mocs play.

The Cope clan and GrayStation spent the game time in the Coca-Cola skybox. The Coke folks are great hosts, as always. Thanks to them and drink Coke!!

We all enjoyed a Mocs 39-21 win over Western Carolina. We made it home around 9:30, and settled in for some DVR'ed television shows from the past week. Wow, we are getting old - normally, I would be liver-deep in beer at this time.

GO MOCS

Sunday, September 09, 2007

Road Trip Day 7

Washington, PA. We awoke naturally with no alarm around 8:30. Erik packed the car, Stacy bathed the kids and then we dined on free breakfast at the hotel.

Our last day on the road began at 10 a.m. Our trip home was going to be I-70 to Columbus, I-71 to Cincinnati and then I-75 to Chattanooga. This was different than on Day 1 as we took I-81 through Virginia and into West Virginia.

We hit our first rain of the road trip in Columbus, which was around kickoff of the Ohio State football game. We stopped to get gas just outside Wheeling, WV and Erik grabbed a 12-pack of Iron City beer for home usage.

We landed in Cincinnati around 2 p.m. and made our way to Busken Bakery for four 12-packs of Halloween and Bengals print cookies. The Buskens are the best ever.

After cookie pickup, we drove by Xavier and past University of Cincinnati to Ludlow Avenue. Our stop took us to Skyline Chili. As we walked in, the first words from Rigby's mouth were, "ahhhh, it smells good in here." After wiping the tears of joy from his face, Erik ordered. Chili-cheese coneys and 3-ways were the orders of choice for the family.

After a hearty dining experience, we drove through our second home city reliving the past.

Our final destination was The Party Source in Newport, Ky, just across the river from Cincy. This place has the largest beer cooler ever. They have rows and rows of wines and spirits and almost every type of beer you can imagine, except for Yuengling and Hudy Delight in a can.

We dropped a Benjamin and more, boxed up the goods and loaded the car with tasty treats for future references.

Our journey was nearing an end. We traveled through the 190-mile stretch of Kentucky and welcomed the dark. Erik listened to the Vols-Southern Miss game, since that was about the only thing the radio would pick up. The other choices were deep-woods country and the Kentucky football game.

We took a pit stop outside of Knoxville and then breezed down I-75 to Chattaboogie. We opted to turn off the radio and tell sppoky stories. Rigby told a 30 minute story about every monster he could think of. Seriously, 30 minutes.

We arrived at our home at 11 p.m.

Saturday consisted of:
-650 miles
-four pit stops
-three hours in Cincinnati
-13 hours total door (Pittsburgh) to door (Chattanooga)

Our seven-day journey was awesome. We traveled more than 1,800 miles during our adventure. What a great time.

The car is unpacked and the second load of laundry is already in the washer.

Friday, September 07, 2007

Road Trip Day 6

The cell phone alarm woke us at 7 a.m. in Erie so we could get on the road early back to Pittsburgh. A quick breakfast at Old McDonalds and we were off.

We stopped in Wale Mark (Wal Mart Rigby-style) to get an umbrella stroller. We planned for a trip to a "see" museum and not a "play" museum so Rigby would be sitting in the new stroller.

We arrived back in Pittsburgh before lunch time and went to the Allegheny Cemetery to see Daniel William Cooper's grave, one of the seven founders of the Sigma Chi Fraternity. The cemetery was very old and very expansive, but the grave site found Erik just like the other three he has seen before this one.



We traveled to and parked on the North Shore area to visit our final museum of the trip, the Andy Warhol Museum, seven-stories of Warhol in an old remodeled building. The museum was very contemporary, very Warhol. What a master he was. It was not your usual Marilyn Monroe pop what you would think of Warhol. It was so many different mediums he used throughout the years. The fifth floor held an archive of 600 boxes of memorabilia he had collected throughout the years.

After our museum experience, we ate at Atrias, which was built into the PNC Ball Park. The cheddar burger and reuben were awesome, as were the cold, Iron City beers we enjoyed (Lucy and Rigby had Sprite).

We breathed in the last daytime air of Pittsburgh and headed out to our hotel on the outskirts of the city.



But our day was not over! We freshened up and drove back to the city for our last big event - Pittsburgh Pirates baseball versus the Chicago Cubs. We parked in the city and walked across the Roberto Clemente Bridge, with thousands of other fans. Our seats were 20 rows behind home plate. The view of the Steel City in the outfield and the warm late summer breeze made for an awesome night.



The Pirates won 6-1. We left the ball park as the pirate raised the skull and cross bones in the outfield, signaling a win! Rigby and Lucy got foam pirate swords and swashbuckled their way out of the stadium.

We walked back across the Clemente Bridge looking over our shoulder at a great evening.

As we left the city, we wanted to see one more area of town on the South Side that we had not seen yet. Although it was 10:30 p.m., we drove through the Carson Street area and counted at least 30 bars and restaurants, alive and kicking. What a place for the adults and college students. We scoped that one out for future visits. During our 20 minute driving tour through the area, Rigby talked to Tobi-o-wan (Erik's sister) describing his week.

The night ended in Washington, PA, 30 miles outside of Pittsburgh. Stacy and Erik lugged two tired kids in the hotel (and a couple fountain drinks and apple pies from Old McDonalds).

What a great week. It's time to head back home. The road trip back home begins tomorrow.

Thursday, September 06, 2007

Road Trip Day 5

Day 5. Erie, Pennsylvania. Went out to the car early morning and discovered the sun casting a shadow on a piece of tire on the passenger side. The tire was not flat, but it was injured. Luckily, the Avis store was about 3 miles away at the Erie International Airport.

Upon our arrival to the Avis counter, I informed the Avis representative that we had an injured tire. He questioned me why I had not noticed it early. Sorry, I thought, I am not vehicle inspection man. At first I thought he was not going to assist me, but he told me he could trade the car out if we felt it was unsafe. Of course I said yes.

So a 30-minute delay switching cars and kids and we were on our way to breakfast at a local establishment called Taki's. It was a good ole local establishment with omelets, hot cakes, bacon, sausage and coffee.

After breakfast we began our tour of Erie. We are not too sure what to make of the place. There is a nice area through town with tourist markers showing where the art museum, the maritime museum, the beaches, bayfront, etc. were, but it looked like this once bustling town of the 1900's was forgotten along the way. There are some awesome old churches and buildings and signs of prosperity from years past.

We went back to the hotel and changed into our beach gear for a trip to Presque Isle on Lake Erie. Upon our arrival to this serene state park, we drove to the end of the isle and beach 10.


The lake was nice and quiet - there were only about 10 other people in the area we were at. We dipped our feet and bums into the chilly water and collected cardboard-thin, smooth rocks, some of the best we have ever seen for skipping across the water. We soaked in the sun, walked along the shore and Rigby sat atop a lifeguard stand.




Sleepiness set in and we headed back for naps in the hotel. And then it was hungry time!

Stacy had read about this local restaurant downtown called the Pufferbelly Restaurant, housed in one of the oldest fire stations in Erie. The Pufferbelly recalls the nickname given to the steam pumpers and engines of the late 1800s.

The Erie Fire Department became an organization in 1816. Construction on the firehouse that is now the Pufferbelly Restaurant, was begun in 1907. It was built at a cost of $14,889.00 and was completed in 1908. Fire House No. 1 enjoyed a long history of fire protection and the department stopped using the station in 1979.

We enjoyed appetizers, dinner, dessert, drinks and really full bellies.

We ended our day at a city playground as the sun set and then in the hotel pool. The GrayStation soaked in the hot tub, Lucy floated around in an inflatable car and Rigby laid on his back in the pool dressed in a life jacket. Rigby even asked to go to the bathroom while he was in the ool. He has learned there is no "p" in it.

On to Day 6 - back to Pittsburgh for Pirates vs. Cubs at PNC Ball Park.

Wednesday, September 05, 2007

Road Trip Day 4

Hello from Western Pennsylvania. They do not sell beer in convenience or grocery stores. You have to buy from a package store, and if those are not open (most close at 10 p.m.) you have to buy from a bar. So Erik bought a six back of Yuengling from Rocco's Tavern in Erie, Pennsylvania.

Now on with the first of the day and what a fun-filled day it was.

We woke up bright and early on Wednesday morning to walk down to the market district. We had breakfast around 8 a.m. and then started on our trek. The market area is where all the fresh produce and meats are brought into the city. The area opens before dawn and closes by lunchtime. We went in and out of local shops enjoying and wishing we had the cheap prices at home.

After a couple hours in the market area, we went back to the hotel to take a mid-morning swim. Erik and Rigby dipped into the hot tub and Lucy latched onto Stacy in the pool.

After the swim we packed up and went across the street to the Heinz Pittsburgh History Center, a massive seven-story museum. We could have stayed there all day, but Lucy and Rigby were ready to go after two hours. Inside was a chronological history of the city, complete with a lifesize cabin, city street, and house. It was awesome.

Also housed in the center was the Western Pennsylvania Sports Museum. Housed on two floors, the area featured the history of the Pittsburgh Pirates, Steelers and Penguins pro teams as well as high school sports and Olympic sports.

Rigby even through a football to Steelers football players!

The interaction throughout the museum was great for young and old. We were as impressed with this museum as we have been with any other we have ever been in. Definitely worth the trip and for a revisit. Rigby, Lucy and Erik had their picture taken around the Three Rivers Stadium goal posts which stood from 1970-2000 and saw many championship Steelers teams.

After picking up some goods from the history store, we traveled across town to experience the Carnegie Science Center, a five level feast for the senses on the banks of the Ohio River and next to Heinz Field, home of the Steelers.

In the Science Center, Rigby and Lucy experienced their first planetarium show in a digital theater dome. We watched a 30-minute presentation on the Pittsburgh night sky. Lucy did great and Rigby really enjoyed peering at the 360 degree view of all the stars and constellations.

After a quick bite to eat in the cafe, Rigby and Erik went to the waterfront to hop aboard the USS Requiem, a cold-war era submarine. What a tight fit!

We finished up our visit seeing the other three floors of the museum, entering a wind tunnel, experiencing an earthquake, playing in water games and seeing the largest model train set display we have ever seen.

The center closed quicker than we wanted so we left and jumped into the car to go get some University of Pittsburgh Panthers gear on campus. Erik got a sweatshirt and Rigby got a Panthers cap. We then walked among the thousands of college students and had sushi at a small streetside shop.

Finally, to end the day, we loaded up the car and drove 126 miles to Erie, Pennsylvania, where we arrived around 9:30 p.m. We checked in at the Clarion Hotel, located just a half mile from Lake Erie. We plan to stay a day or so here and then go to where the road takes us.

See you tomorrow! Time for sleep - note below, this was right after midnight as Lucy FINALLY fell asleep. She was an evil hornet and having a good time staying up late.

Tuesday, September 04, 2007

Road Trip Day 3

Tuesday morning sleep in! We woke at 9:30 a.m. and Rigby and Erik headed down for some complimentary breakfast and to pick some up to bring back to mommy and Lucy.

After baths and showers, we headed to the North Shore to visit the Pittsburgh Children's Museum. The museum is inside old post office and planetarium buildings, connected by a new modern glass structure. The entire building runs off of hydroelectric, solar and wind energy.

The museum was quite large, spanning four floors. We started in Mister Rogers' neighborhood. Mister Rogers is a Pittsburgh native. There were props and sets from the TV show.



We continued into the a room with ghosts, shadow makers and a gravity room with tilted floors. Rigby climbed into a two-story "limb bender," a maze that fit inside a wall. It was awesome and Erik wished he could have climbed in.

The next room was a garage, complete with a Mini-Cooper car. This room was inside the old planetarium dome.

We visited the second floor with train sets and Lucy-aged items. The third floor was a waterworks area where we could build boats and sail them across pools of waters. Rigby and Lucy had full rain gear on so they would not get soaked. When they were done, there was a wall of dryers to dry off the kids.

The basement housed Clifford, the Big Red Dog. After some Clifford action, we stopped into the old planetarium lobby, which had been transformed into a cafe and rest area.

It was a great children's museum - completely different from Chattanooga's.

Lunch was taken at Lula's near the University of Pittsburgh campus. This Asian cuisine establishment was voted "Best of" for several years and it did not disappoint. Rigby stabbed cucumbers with chop sticks and Lucy ate curry noodles!

We chose the zoo to visit next, but discovered that it closed at FOUR when we arrived at 4:03. We were all pissed, so we took some quiet time at nearby Highland Park. There was a large fountain, super playground and lots of green space for all to enjoy. Rigby ran like a wild horse and Lucy picked flowers.

A stop back at the hotel to freshen up was needed, and we watched a little TV.

We got back out on the road near sundown to drive up to Mt. Washington to see the city and rivers immediately below. The view was breathtaking, and we walked up and down some hilly roads to the Duquesne Incline, in operation since 1877. For $7 for the family, we rode down the incline and back up watching the city skyline and spotting deer on the hillside.

Night fell and we enjoyed the night sky on a mountain overlook. We reluctantly got back in the car, not wanting to leave the beautiful views, but we were ready to get something to eat. As soon as we got in the car, Rigby grabbed a "sippy cup" of Sprite and proceeded to spill the drink all over him - a faulty lid was to blame.

After driving around looking for something to eat, we settled on a local favorite establishment, Primanti Brothers in the Strip District near our hotel.

At 9:30 p.m. the proclaimed area that does not sleep was snoring. Nothing appeared open but Primanti's and it is open 24 hours. ROCK ON. Erik went in to get to go orders since the kids were asleep. After ordering steak and cheese, corned beef and cheese and bacon and cheese sandwiches, Erik enjoyed an ice-cold Iron City Beer.

We took the food and sleepy kids back to the hotel and got on the food. To note, these sandwiches were topped with slaw and fries and must have weighed a pound each. Rigby's bacon and cheese must have had 12 pieces of bacon on it. He did wake up and is eating the bacon right now, actually.

So time for bed and on to Day 4.

Spinning!

Monday, September 03, 2007

Road Trip - Day 2

Day 2 began with baths, showers and a full breakfast at the Beckley, WV Fairfield Marriott. After packing the car back up, we headed back out to where the road will take us, as Rigby keeps saying.

We detoured 30 minutes into our drive to look for the New River Gorge National River. We ended up going through some old towns and looped back around to Highway 19. We crossed the New River Gorge Bridge (longest steel arch span in the western hemisphere) and found the national river visitors center. We had never been to a national river, but it is park of the national parks system.



We discovered the striking size of the gorge with one of the world's oldest rivers at the bottom. A short hiking trail took us into the gorge on a wooden boardwalk. The boardwalk has two observation decks which offered great views of the bridge and the mile-wide gorge it spans.

We soon made our way back on the road, stopped at an Old McDonalds (of course) and headed north to Morgantown, WV, home of the West Virginia University Mountaineers. We just drove through the campus area and went on our way.

After driving 260 miles, we traveled through the Pennsylvania hills and as we neared Pittsburgh, we passed through the Fort Pitt tunnel. As soon as the tunnel ended, the Steel City appeared. It was a great way to enter the city.

We drove around and got the lay of the land, driving around and through the city. We stopped into a coffee shop on the University of Pittsburg's campus for milk, coffee drinks, muffins and wi-fi access. We then settled in at the Hampton Inn & Suites downtown next to the Convention Center and across the street from the Heinz History Center.

After unpacking and throwing the kids from bed to bed, we got dressed and headed out on foot to explore the city at sundown. We walked a dimly-lit path to Point Park, the area where the three rivers meet at the point of the city. To our dismay, the large signature fountain was off and the park was closed for a $35 million renovation.



We walked away from the way we came and traveled the other side of the city looking for access back across the highway and into the city. At this point we had walked about two miles and were a little frustrated, and in the dark.

We found our way back in to the city and walked to the PPG (Pittsburgh Plate Glass) campus. This place was awesome, with its tall black glass buildings. It looked like a medieval fortress. The center of the quad had a large fountain and Rigby and Erik made sure to get a little wet.

Back on track, we took Penn Avenue back through the city and to our hotel.

Note that Rigby walked almost all three miles (at least), Lucy stayed awake in her stroller and we had nothing to eat. Being Labor Day and we were in a blue-collar city, nothing was open at 9 p.m. It was a little strange.

So we hopped in the car to look for some grub. We ended up on the University of Pittsburgh campus and found the Original Hot Dog Shop, which we discovered was ranked the fourth-best hot dog in America by Gourmet Magazine.

What great college food and atmosphere. We walked in at 10 p.m. with a hungry Rigby and completely asleep Lucy.

This place opened up in 1960. Walk inside, and we're assaulted by the sights, sounds and smells of urban Americana. Signs everywhere offering various dogs and a man behind the counter with half a head of hair, half a beard and one eyebrow - and he was very congenial.

Stacy got an Original Hot Dog with ketchup, mustard, onion and relish. Erik got the Super Dog - a hot dog with two pieces of crunchy bacon and melted cheese, plus mayo, ketchup, onion and relish. Rigby had pizza from a counter on the other side of the shop.

The fries were awesome and served in mass quantities - they're bright yellow-gold -- some twisty, some tiny, some crunchy -- and cooked tasty.

There were coolers all over the place with 12-packs of beer and 40 oz. bottles of malt liquor which you could purchase to go with the meal. We had sodas.

Bellies full, we headed back to the hotel and crashed for the night. On to Day 3.

Sunday, September 02, 2007

Road Trip - Day 1

Labor Day Week Road Trip 2007 has begun!

We left Chattanooga around 1 p.m. and pulled into Beckley, West Virginia at 11 p.m., 450 miles away. But we had some good pitstops along the way.

Exit 407 on I-40 - Aside from all the tourists and straight-up rednecks (I know, it is my stomping grounds), we enjoyed a quick bite to eat at Old McDonalds.

As we toured up I-81, we decided to take our first detour and travel about 100 miles out of the way to Blacksburg and Virginia Tech.

The Arby's on Exit 69 in Virginia has clean bathrooms.

As we arrived on the campus, the sun was setting. We walked across the field to a new memorial dedicated to all those that lost their lives in April on the VT campus. There were 32 Hokie stones in a semi-circle with memorablia and flowers adorning each one. It was quite a moving and sobering experience.

Nearby, students were playing soccer, football and enjoying their lives. How could something so horrible have happened on that campus - or anywhere?

We finished the Blacksburg evening at Backstreets, a great little pizza place. Lucy ate parmesan cheese off the table, Rigby scarfed down pizzinis and pizza slices and Erik and Stacy finished off a NY style pie.

Since we had gone out of our way, we took old highway 460 through the mountains in total darkness to Bluefield, WV, then the I-77 toll road and into Beckley, WV, where we are staying in a Courtyard Marriott with speedy wi-fi access. We did stop on the side of the toll road so Rigby could pee-pee on the rocks.

On to sleep and Day 2!

Saturday, September 01, 2007

FOUR YEARS


Four years of joy.
Four years of happy times.
Four years of tearful moments.
Four years of time flying by.
Four years of learning.
Four years of seeing life grow.
Four years of listening.
Four years of laughing.
Four years of teaching.
Four years of hugging.
Four years of waking up.
Four years of playing games.
Four years of friendship.
Four years of following.
Four years of fun.
Four years of running.
Four years of cleaning.
Four years of protecting.
Four years of smiles.
Four years of buying toys.
Four years of watching.
Four years of sharing.
Four years of love.
Four years of our son.
Four years old.

We love you, Rigby Wilder Gray. Happy Birthday.

Saturday, August 25, 2007

Retreat Man

August has been a busy one. Aside from work, I traveled to the University of Missouri for five days to participate on the faculty for Sigma Chi's Balfour Leadership Training Workshop. It was an awesome experience yet again with 1,500 Sigma Chis from all over North America.

I spent two days in mid-August at Fall Creek Falls State Park participating in my first Leadership Chattanooga retreat. I made some friends for life with 39 other LC classmates. That was two days of learning, sharing, building, strengthening, swimming, eating, drinking, talking, listening and becoming a better person. I am really looking forward to the next ten months of LC.

My last retreat of the month was the UTC Alumni Retreat. We spent a day together discussing UTC, what it means and how we can make our story better.

I am fortunate to be a part of great organizations.

Monday, July 16, 2007

An iPod Day

What a great day for the GrayStation. Thanks to our new Apple MacBook Pro and Apple's massive ease to fix things, our 3-year-old 40GB iPod has come back to life. We were on the cutting edge buying an iPod years ago, until it died some time ago and our Windows-based PC had compatibility and fix issues.

So today, I dusted off the old iPod and hooked it up to the MacBook. The laptop immediately discovered problems and identified fixes for its counterpart. Ten minutes later, we were jamming to an initial catalog of 1,700 tunes.

ROCK ON

Saturday, May 26, 2007

Leadership Chattanooga

I have been accepted as a member of the 2007-08 class of Leadership Chattanooga!

Entering into its 23rd year, the program is a 10-month leadership development program that identifies people in early- or mid-career, familiarizes them with community issues and services and develops their leadership skills to prepare them for prominent business, cultural and political roles.

Some 750 people have graduated from Leadership Chattanooga since it was established by the Chattanooga Chamber Foundation in 1984.

Needless to say, I am very excited about this opportunity.

Tuesday, May 08, 2007

John Legend

Stacy and I went to Nashville on Monday to see John Legend at The Ryman Auditorium. We had great seats directly beside the stage. This being the third time we have seen him (Birmingham and Atlanta were the other two), he put on a great show that included several remixed versions of his hits, as well as a Beatles' tune, "I want you," from Abbey Road.



Friday, April 27, 2007

Charlotte



The family drove to the Queen City to enjoy some time away and visit with Erik's dad, grandmother and other relatives. Upon our arrival on Friday, we visited the the Hendrick Race Shop and the Dale Earnhardt, Inc. Race Shop. It was awesome to see where they build and work on the cars, as well as seeing Jeff Gordon's four Winston Cup Trophies and Dale's seven trophies. The Dale memorabilia was special to see.

Later that evening, we went uptown and viewed the local flavor. We finished the evening at South Park Mall - Apple Store, Crate and Barrel, Sephora, Nordstrom and many other upscale and out of our price range stores. We filled our bellies at Cheesecake Factory - salmon herb salad, pulled pork sandwich, chicken tenders, some sodas and a tasty 22 oz. Yuengling.

Monday, April 23, 2007

Hello, I'm a Mac

April 2007 - A month that saw GrayStation convert to a Mac. The past couple Dells and the Sony Vaio had served us well, but Microsoft was seriously bogging us down with security updates and the like. So here we are, a MacBook Pro with a 15.4 inch widescreen, 2.16 GHz Intel Core Duo, 120GB hard drive, gigabit ethernet, built in wireless and bluetooth, magnetic power adapter and a cool illuminated keyboard.

The power of advertising does work. What you see in the Apple commercials is what we feel like between the PC and Mac comparisons.

Monday, April 09, 2007

Gene

Everyday for the past several years I have seen my friend, Gene, walking the halls and floors of the Unum building. For the past who knows how long, Gene's the man who walked through two massive buildings emptying all the recycling bins, and lighting up the face of most everyone he connected with.

Everyone knows Gene - Eugene for proper, Geno for fun. He just bought a new Cadillac. He already had a nice Caddy with a license plate on the front "Single and Loving It," but this new one had it all.

Gene's a big man, a bear of a man. He's definitely a man you wanted on your side in a fight.

Gene and I officially met several years ago talking about our love for Southern cooking - bar-b-que ribs to be exact. We always had a food story for one another. He would tell me that if he were younger he would get him a bottle of "The Bull" and have at it - or maybe some "Voka."

I saw Gene almost every morning. If I walked into the Atrium cafeteria early enough, he was sitting down eating oatmeal and raisins, biscuits and gravy, eggs or some other breakfast treat.

If I saw him later in the day, he always made it a point to take off his work glove and shake my hand. I would catch up behind him sometimes and throw my arm around his back, barely reaching the other side. He would say "what's up, youngblood."

When I saw him, I was usually on my way to a meeting, but time stopped around him and the next meeting did not seem as important. If it was football season, we were talking about "dem Gawja Bulldawgs." If it were the summer, we were talking about "dem Hotlanta Braves."

I never spent more than five minutes at a time with him, as he would not let me and made sure we went on back to work.

When Gene saw me near a vending machine he would buy me a drink or offer me one. I soon made it a point to beat him to the punch and buy him a drink before he could get to me. He got the best of me one day and brought a can of Dr Pepper to my desk. I actually saved that can for a month or so because it brought a smile to my face. I bought a drink for him a couple weeks ago, when I saw him looking through his pocket for money - "Hey, man, I owe you one."

Last Thursday, I was getting ready for our weekly staff meeting. On my way to the meeting, he came around the corner and we gave our customary "pound" handshake.

As I entered the meeting room, he popped his head in and told everyone, pointing at me, "that's my main man." He proceeded to tell my fellow managers and me about his twin, Eugene - that he was NewGene and his twin brother was in the other building.

We all laughed, and he proceeded on, pushing his large cart on down the hall.

I took Friday off so Thursday was the last time I would see Gene alive.

Eugene Johnson was 71-years-old when he passed away Saturday.
Rest in peace, my man. God has the NewGene now.

Tuesday, April 03, 2007

Opening Day in Cincinnati

The 28-hour Opening Day Road Trip to Cincinnati

April 1 - 9:20 p.m. leave Chattanooga for Cincinnati

April 2 - 2:30 a.m. arrive in Cincinnati, sleep at a Motel 6 ($35)

8:00 a.m. wake up, it's game day!

9:00 a.m. drive through Mt. Adams and remember some good ole days

9:30 a.m. arrive on University of Cincinnati campus to tour new varsity village athletic complex -with assistance of one of Erik's Xavier classmates

10:30 a.m. standing on UC's basketball court

10:45 a.m. eat in UC's UC

11:10 a.m. visit Mark Jorgensen, Stacy's former boss at the UC Foundation

11:40 a.m. arrive on Xavier's campus and tour Cintas Center basketball arena. Met an admissions director who lives in Chattanooga, but works for X.

12:30 p.m. stop in to Busken Bakery to pick up some Reds cookies!

1:00 p.m. park in Newport, Ky and walk Purple People Bridge across the Ohio River to Great American Ball Park

1:30 p.m. enter GABP

2:05 p.m. see worst ceremonial first pitch ever - Cincinnati Mayor

2:10 p.m. Play Ball! Reds vs. Cubs

2:20 p.m. Adam Dunn 2-run HR

2:55 p.m. Adam Dunn 421 ft HR shot!

4:40 p.m. Reds 5, Cubs 1

5:30 p.m. jaunt back over Purple People Bridge

6:15 p.m. arrive at Party Source in Newport, Ky - the most alcohol in one place

7:00 p.m. arrive at Skyline Chili - regular 3-way, cheese fries, chili-cheese coneys

7:30 p.m. leave Cincinnati

April 3 - 12:40 a.m. arrive back in Chattanooga

Saturday, March 17, 2007

St. Patty's Day!

Bring on the green beer!

It has been and fun and challenging four weeks at work for me. I was temporarily removed from my day-to-day managerial duties and was involved in a project that affected my entire department (100+ employees) and our customers (5,000 accounts and 1.4 million policy owners. It was challenging and a great learning experience. It gives me further confidence that I work on a great team for a great company.

That has been my life.

Rigby continues to evolve into a little man. He pee-peed in the potty three times yesterday, asking to do so each time. He was so excited to tell me about it when I picked him up at school on Friday. What genuine joy it would be to get that excited each time you did something I see as being so simple.

Lucy has been under the weather this week with a double ear infection, but she still sneaks a beautiful smile in every once in a while. She is not walking yet at 13 months, but she can motor around on all fours.

Stacy has been hard at work as well. She spent the day in Portland, ME using the corporate jet to get there and back - ah, luxury. She continues to thrive at work and make significant improvments for our company.

Well, back to the green beer!

Thursday, February 22, 2007

The first of the hated Celtics has passed

My favorite memories of the NBA lost a basketball legend today.

The 80s were the greatest years of the NBA. Celtics vs. Lakers. Magic vs. Bird. All the hype.

But there were not many men that could contain Magic - and one of those men, Dennis Johnson, 52, passed away today.

During his 14-year playing career with the Seattle SuperSonics, the Phoenix Suns, and the Boston Celtics, DJ established himself as one of the best defensive guards in the league.

DJ was on five all-star teams and nine straight all-defensive teams. He was a member of three NBA championship squads, including being named the Finals MVP in 1979 with the Sonics.

In 1984, his first year in Boston, the Celtics won their 15th NBA title, and in his third year they won their 16th.

Johnson's postseason heroics -- shutting down Magic in the 1984 Finals; his buzzer-beating jumper to win the 1985 Finals Game 4 against the Lakers; and his game-winning basket off Larry Bird's steal in Game 5 of the 1987 conference finals against Detroit -- placed him among the most-loved Celtics (and most hated by Lakers fans).

It's just too bad this great guard did not make it to the Hall of Fame before he passed away.

Rest in Peace, DJ.

Saturday, February 10, 2007

Barack Obama 2008!

It is time for Barack Obama - the next President of the United States.

Let's set high standards for education.
Let's strengthen our economy for everyone.
Let's always remember our veterans.
Let's end our dependency on the Middle East's oil supply.
Let's give everyone the chance to see a doctor when they need one.
Let's end the war, but still fight terrorism with a smarter, firm hand.

Obama said today:

"Each and every time, a new generation has risen up and done what's needed to be done. Today we are called once more - and it is time for our generation to answer that call.

For that is our unyielding faith - that in the face of impossible odds, people who love their country can change it."

Read the full text: http://www.barackobama.com/2007/02/10/remarks_of_senator_barack_obam_11.php

Wednesday, February 07, 2007

Lucy's 21?

Rigby exclaimed as he ran around the UTC Children's Center, "My baby sister is 21! Lucy is 21!"

Naturally, the teachers and I thought this was quite funny, knowing that Lucy will be one year old on February 8. I just went with it, and said we were indeed putting the Kahlua in Lucy's formula bottle tonight since she was 21.

I later discovered that the other day Stacy had been telling Rigby that Lucy was "turning one." Well, it sounded like "twenty-one" to me.

It is hard to believe our daughter is a year old already. It seems like just the other day, we were taking our first picture with you. Here's to you, little Lucy.

Thursday, January 18, 2007

Missing Hair

So I was recently changing Lucy's diaper, while Rigby, age 3, jumped on the bed peering over my every move.

Rigby is always questioning and commenting - it's cool. He proceeds, "Daddy, you are missing hair."

"Where?" I ask.

"There and there," pointing on both sides of my forehead. "Where is it?"

Friday, December 29, 2006

2006 Down the Drain

As we put a bow on 2006 and send it off in style, I am so thankful for such a great year.

  • The birth of our second child came in February, and Lucy has brought us so much joy.
  • Our three-year-old Rigby really became a mature little boy - surprising us with his increased vocabulary skills and always charming us with his consistent good nature.
  • We welcomed back my sister, Tobi, to Chattanooga, as she, Corey and Nellie finished a three-year stint in Asheville.
  • We had a great week's vacation on St. Simon's Island. What a joy to be together as a family, away from all the busy hassles of everyday life. Oh, to win the lottery.
  • Stacy and I lost significant weight after the birth of Lucy. I lost 30 pounds and saw 199 for the first time in a long time!
  • This was a year that I saw my Mocs beat Georgia Southern on a last second field goal - boy that was awesome.
  • We celebrated my 35th birthday in Atlanta at the Tom Petty concert - there will never be another like that man. We also celebrated my birthday with friends and family and my sister and brother-in-law's new house.
  • I had a flat-out great time during UTC homecoming, staying up until the break of dawn with fellow friends and alumni.
  • Stacy and I got to meet John Legend after attending his concert in Atlanta. What a great talent he is.
  • Rich, my fellow Class of 89'er finally got engaged to his long-time sweetheart, Danielle. I really thank my mom and Tobi for meeting and befriending them in Asheville. They are a great addition to our family. Even though Rigby is heartbroken that his first older woman crush is leaving him, he is cool with it. Too bad Rich and Danielle cannot turn on a computer to read this - yuppie Asheville mountain-people types (whatever that means)!
  • We again spent two wonderful Christmas weekends with my mom and Bob and then with Stacy's parents and the rest of the family. What a wonderful month December is for us, even though we packed on some extra pounds from all the tasty eatings.
  • Stacy and I are very thankful for our careers and proud to work for a truly caring company, even though some think we wear devil horns around the office (whatever). We work with some pretty great folks!
Best wishes to all for a superfantastic 2007!

Monday, December 25, 2006

What a Christmas

East Ridge Christmas.
Ford Explorer - rear, filled. passenger seat, filled.
room for Erik, Stacy and the kids? maybe.

Saturday, December 16, 2006

Football Championship


Chattanooga hosted its 10th-straight NCAA Football Championship Friday night, December 15.

Appalachian State beat UMass 28-17 in front of the largest Finley Stadium crowd ever - 22, 808.

I was fortunate to have an all-access pass at the stadium and got to visit many great friends.

I watched kickoff on the skybox roof with David Cope and David Smotherman (pictured).

I stood on the field at the 30-yard line with Warren "Moose" Koegel, current Athletic Director at Coastal Carolina. I also got to show pics of my kids to his wife, "Big E" (Elaine).

I visited the Chancellor's box and shared stories with Dr. Brown and UTC alumnus Steve Harvey - and we had some great stories.

I sat in the Coca-Cola skybox with friends - we are so fortunate to have Coca-Cola as a major supporter of UTC.

I hung out in the press box and visited some dear old friends - the most loyal volunteers UTC athletics has.

I saw a great football game with an overflow crowd!

What a night!

Wednesday, December 06, 2006

John Legend in the ATL

Stacy and I went to Atlanta last night to see the John Legend concert at The Tabernacle, a former downtown church and historical landmark turned into a music hall. The Tabernacle holds about 3,000 people and is mostly standing room only with a couple balconies for those wanting to sit.

The Tabernacle has been acknowledged as the best concert venue by Rolling Stone magazine.

It did not disappoint. We were three rows from the stage and John Legend put on a heckuva show. It was the second time we had seen him - the first was last year in Birmingham.
And because we got in right when the doors opened, Stacy was one of the first of 100 people to buy a t-shirt, which awarded us backstage passes to meet Legend after the show.

After two hours of G.O.O.D. music, we made our way to meet John. He was very nice and patient considering he had just put on a show and was now meeting 100 people and signing autographs.

What a great night!!


Thursday, November 09, 2006

Our nine month old daughter

Well, at first she scooted, now she is crawling. Lucy's first real crawl was Saturday night in a Finley Stadium skybox during the Mocs final home football game.

Lucy also all of a sudden has two front bottom teeth. She has such a great character. The teachers at school call her an actress. She likes to put on a show with that big smile of hers.

Monday, October 23, 2006

60

Happy birthday to my Mom, one of my best friends! I am who I am because of her.

Halloween Party

My sister had her 4th annual Halloween Party and the first one in Chattanooga this past weekend. Her house was decorated with perfection. Black lights and red lights were the lighting of choice. Strobe lights flashed across the front. Bloody shower walls with a chainsaw greeted guests to one bathroom. And in the kitchen and dining room, evil spirits of the liquid kind flowed. Enough that one 35-year-old rested on the couch until 5 p.m. the next day, doing nothing but watching NFL and the back of his eyelids.

Monday, October 09, 2006

Homecoming

Ah, what a great time of year. I enjoyed the UTC homecoming weekend with family, friends and fraternity brothers.

Even though the football game was horrible (UTC 21 - App St 56), tailgating was all-good. I sailed down Knob Creek for a good while, enjoyed a burger at Northshore Grill, rocked to the 80s at the Sigma Chi house, late night/early morning dining at City Cafe and then arrived home at 5 a.m.

Sunday was not very productive except for a nice family hike on Lookout Mountain. Rigby hiked a mile on foot!

Sunday, September 24, 2006

Mocs Win

What a great Saturday! The Georgia Southern Eagles football team came to town to take on our Chattanooga Mocs. GSU owns the Mocs, with an all-time 18-1 record.

Well, not this year! The Mocs won 27-26 on a last second field goal. I held Rigby in my arms behind the goalposts where the winning ball came through. It was awesome! All the fans just stood around in kind of a stupor - "did we really win?"

Later in the evening, Stacy and Tobi hosted a birthday party for my 35th year. We had beverages and food in to the wee hours. It was a great time to see several of my friends together that I usually do not see in one setting.

GO MOCS!

Saturday, September 16, 2006

St. Simons Island

The GrayStation spent the first week of September on St. Simons Island, a spectacular location about an hour south of Savannah.

We had a great, lazy time. Every day on the beach, good food, cold beer, a daring 3 year old, a patient seven month old and dreams of never leaving to go back to work!

Wednesday, July 19, 2006

Rigby, the Informer

Erik was recently getting dressed and had his shirt in his mouth. Rigby came running in and said, "Daddy, don't eat your shirt. There is plenty of food in the kitchen."

Erik was laying on the floor in Rigby's room and Rigby said, " Daddy, don't go to sleep in the floor. The bed is for sleeping. You need to come get in bed."

Erik announced that he was going to the bathroom and Rigby said, "Daddy, there are diapers in that drawer if you need to take one with you."

The Gray's mailbox was knocked off its pole (vandalism? car came around the corner street and smacked it? Who knows?) Rigby announced, "The mailman hit our mailbox with a hammer. How are we going to fix the mailbox so the mailman can put mail in there?"

Wednesday, May 24, 2006

Atlanta Trip

We went to Atlanta last weekend to enjoy a some time with the family. It was Lucy's first big trip. We spent Saturday afternoon at the Zoo and Rigby had an absolute blast. He saw all the animals he sees in the books he "reads."

Lucy slept.

Rigby loved the elephants, 'nocerous, zebras, gorillas, King Kongs, snakes, monkeys and especially the panda bears. One panda was pacing back and forth across the front window while dozens of people looked on. The panda stoped right in front of Rigby and proceeded to tease him. It was awesome.

Lucy slept.

That evening we went to Decatur and ate at Crescent Moon, a tasty little place. We all had huge meals and a blackberry cobbler with ice cream.

We stayed at the Sheraton Suites on I-285. We had a two-room suite, so we all had beds. Lucy slept with mommy, Erik was in a bed and rigby slept in the living room portion on the couch bed watching his ownTV.

That Sunday we went to the Little Gardens restaurant in Lawrenceville, Ga to see my dad and our extended family. We had a great time and it was great for them to see Rigby and Lucy. Food was aplenty and there was even a chocolate fountain where Rigby dipped strawberries and rice krispie treats in it.

We ended the weekend at IKEA and The Varsity. So it was a great weekend had by all!

Wednesday, March 15, 2006

Growing

Lucy is five weeks old today. And Rigby is two-and-a-half going on teenager.

Rigby is so loving to Lucy. Every morning when he wakes up, he jumps for his bed and runs to find Baby Lucy and mommy. He greets Lucy with a pat on the head and an "mmm, mah" - kiss.

The last several days Rigby has been picking clover flowers from school and holding on to one all the way home. He runs in the house each day and gives the flower to Mommy. Today he picked a purple flower from one of our phlox plants and told me it was for Baby Lucy. When he got in the house, he ran by Mommy and said, "this not for you, Mommy. It's for Baby Lucy."

Sunday, February 12, 2006

Our son

Not that I ever forgot one moment with Rigby, but these last couple days I have rediscovered how wonderful our son is.

He was away with grandparents, cousins and friends from Wednesday, February 8 - Saturday, February 11. Stacy and I only got to see him for just a couple hours each day while we were welcoming Lucy to the world.

Now, holding Lucy was equal to the experience of holding Rigby when he was first born. It is a feeling hard to describe watching the miracle of life come from Stacy’s belly. It is equally hard to describe the feeling having your family watch on when you walk out of the operating room with wife and newborn.

I went to pick Rigby up on Saturday afternoon at the Cope's house. My, had he grown in the past couple days. Just watching the new things he had absorbed and sentences that came from his mouth was amazing.

We left the Cope's and went to Target. Rigby and I had a conversation that is the best it can get between a 35-year-old and a 2-and-a-half year old. As we approached the Target parking lot, Rigby exclaims, "Daddy, we going to Target, I get pink icee, no, I get bloooo icee."

After buying an Icee, we strolled through the aisles and just talked about whatever came up or whatever was on the aisle. Rigby described things he saw, colors he knew and once stopped to tell me, "Daddy, I love you."

Rigby neared the end of his Icee, and handed me the cup, "You want some, there's more in it." The generosity of this child is awesome.

As we walked out of Target, a beautiful snow was falling. Rigby was so excited. "It is snowing at Target." Finally, Rigby told me that it was too cold and "we need get in car - that's you seat, that's my seat, you drive," he said.

In the car, Rigby asked me to play "peoples." I thought he was talking about The Beatles, but I did not realize Rigby was asking for a certain song - his own, Eleanor Rigby, which includes the line, "Ah, look at all the lonely people." After that it was Yellow Submarine, which Rigby sang the chorus.

Before going in the house, Rigby and I discussed the importance of taking care of Baby Lucy and Mommy and being gentle.

When we got inside, Rigby went to the bed where Mommy and Lucy were laying. Rigby climbed up the bed, laid his hand on Lucy's head, and said, "It's okay, Lucy home."

And so the next chapter in our life begins. Our son and daughter begin their lives taking care of each other.

The miracle that is our existence.





Saturday, February 11, 2006

Lucy Clare Gray

Our little girl is here!

Lucy Clare Gray
February 8, 2006
8:43 a.m.
7 lbs. 7 ounces
18 1/2 inches long


We are all home now and doing great. Lucy and Rigby are such great blessings in our lives.

Saturday, February 04, 2006

Blackbird

Erik was in the kitchen this afternoon singing the beginning of the Beatle's song, Blackbird.

Blackbird singing in the dead of night
Take these broken wings and learn to fly

And Rigby, sitting in another room, finished,

All your life

It was awesome!

Sunday, January 29, 2006

Lucy is almost here!

It is almost time to meet Lucy. We are very excited. We have most of her room ready to go. We bought her stroller and car seat today.

Rigby seems to be ready. He knows Lucy is hiding in Mommy's belly.

Friday, March 04, 2005

Banddaddy

Stacy’s grandfather, Victor Alton Oglesby, affectionately always known as “Banddaddy,” passed away shortly after midnight, Friday, March 4, 2005. He had a short battle with cancer and its complications.

He was born February 19, 1923 in Jones Mill Community, Meriwether Co., Georgia.
He served our country in the Armed Services from 1942 – 1945 in the 873rd Army Engineer Battalion, South Pacific Theater of Operations of World War II.
He was a loving husband, father, brother, grandfather, great grandfather and great friend to all.

Our son, Rigby, was lucky to know him for the 18 months he has been on this earth. And we are happy that our Banddaddy had the opportunity to know and love our son.

Rest in peace, Banddaddy.

Monday, February 28, 2005

Grandparental visit

This past weekend was a time of entertainment with family. Erik's parents came down from upper East Tennessee. We took Rigby to the Creative Discovery Museum where he proceeded to take the place by storm. We could have let him play there for six hours. We alter walked around the waterfront area, admiring the new river pier and the aquarium expansion. We also go to watch cranes place the steel beams in place for the new walking bridge to the Hunter Museum.

The next day, Rigby made his first trip to the Tennessee Aquarium. Oh, how Rigby enjoyed the fishes. He paced back and forth across the expansive tanks, yelling at his swimming friends. He had a grand ole time.

And we had a great time with grammy and g-daddy. It was good to have them in our home.

Monday, February 14, 2005

Cincinnati Trip

This past weekend found us in Cincinnati. Stacy's sister, Meghan, auditioned for her doctorate admissions in clarinet at the College Conservatory of Music at the University of Cincinnati. Stacy's parents also made the trip.

We had a great stay at the Marriott Kingsgate. We ate a huge dinner with good friends at Buca di Peppo on Friday evening.

We made the standard trips to Busken Bakery for the cookies, Xavier bookstore for Musketeers items and Skyline Chili for the deliciousness.

The trip home was really bad as it rained the entire way back. The fog was very bad at the Kentucky-Tennessee line.

However, another great trip to the 'Nati. We sure do love her.

Sunday, February 06, 2005

Super Bowl

Well, it had to come sometime, and it happened at the fraternity house. Quite fitting.

Rigby and I went to the Sigma Chi house to hang out with the guys and watch the Super Bowl. We had our Terrell Owens Philadelphia Eagles jerseys on.

Rigby started the evening with a tasty apple oatmeal bar and a cup of apple juice.
He was having a blast throwing a ball all over the living room while we watched the Super Bowl. By the end of the second quarter, he got real tired and came to rest on my shoulder.

Just as the New England Patriots scored their second touchdown, Rigby threw up. I whisked him to the bathroom and he let loose twice more. He was scared more than anything.

So we got in the car and came home, but not before he threw up on himself in the car two more times. Our jerseys were ripe to say the least.

Once I got him in our house and cleaned him up, he went to sleep. He is fine, I guess he just got too excited.

Many of the brothers said when he is 17 years old, they would back me up when I tell him his first puking incident was in the fraternity house when he was 17 months old.

Saturday, January 01, 2005

Friday, December 31, 2004

A great year

What a great year. Our first full year with our son - a year that may not be topped!
We had a great holiday season. We celebrated Christmas in White Pine at Erik's parents the weekend before Christmas.

Meghan and Sam came in from Albuquerque for a couple weeks. Christmas at the Oglesby Ranch was fun. Food in the afternoon, gift-opening at night, most of the night!

Friday, November 26, 2004

Thanksgiving 04

November 19 was an awesome night at the UTC McKenzie Arena where the Lady Mocs played the Tennessee Lady Vols in front of 10,051 fans. The Lady Mocs lost, but it was fun.

This Thanksgiving was a good one, even though Erik had bronchitis. The Gray family went to Asheville to celebrate Thanksgiving with Mom, Bob, Tobi and Corey on November 20-22. We had a good time. Corey made the entire meal. All Stacy and Erik did was buy wine.

We spent Thanksgiving day in East Ridge at the Oglesby Ranch with Stacy's side of the family. We ate much and had a good time.

The 15-month-old little terror, a.k.a. our son Rigby is progressing right along. It has been an awesome past year and a half with him.